Need help with my set!

So far, I've been building my mage with 3x stam, 3x Int, and I don't see any progress! I can deal Ok damage, good if I spam instant skills, but I can't still afford to let meele chars hit me, and If i'm stunned by a charge or shadowprison = game over.
So I'm thinking on building my mage on Stamina and Defense, and maybe All resistances, going for mainly Stam and Def. My m.atk won't be so low since I have Essence of Magic (m.atk buff - 310), and being Mage/priest , wich is a pure m.atk class and , a good t7 staff may help. I think that, since pvp is all about survival this won't be too bad... Atm I have 5015 HP unbuffed, and 2346 p.def, and I will be working to improve this.
I'll let u guys know how this goes. post any suggestions, tips, and opinions!

I agree ^_^

key is to add the +16 to all stats to as many stuff as you can, for dmg and survivability
And also the +20sta +50matk yellow

And if you happen to get the +sta +int stat its still both survivability and dmg.

But yeah Might, and Rigor V are really good to have.

Endurance V is cheaper to get but not as good as most.

Stamina X is awesome.

And yeah ofcourse +36 to all resistances on some of ya pieces (I would say like 2~4 pieces don't go put it all on everything, since stamina is the real thing that makes you survive, and resist is only a chance thing)

changed my mind,
2x stam 1x def, 3x int